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"I Love You. We're Married. Now Change!" (Part 1 of 2)

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Psychology & Self-Improvement
  
Saturday, 03 March 2012 00:00

weddingrings99I often tell people to be aware of their expectations regarding spouses and romantic partners. The knee-jerk reaction is typically, “Expectations? I don’t have expectations!”

First of all, what’s wrong with having expectations? We all want and expect things. It’s part of being a normal human being. To pretend otherwise is patronizing and dishonest. You do have expectations whether you realize it or not. Those expectations are contained in the form of your emotions.

If your spouse says he’ll put out the garbage and then fails to do so, you will feel angry or annoyed. Your anger is a communication from your subconscious that you expected him to keep his word. It’s a perfectly reasonable expectation, but the point is that it is an expectation. You cannot escape
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Enlightenment and Reason Made America What It Is

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Society & Culture
  
Friday, 02 March 2012 00:00

usaMichael Ignatieff, formerly of the Kennedy School of Government at (surprise, surprise) Harvard, writes, “[Thomas] Jefferson airily assumed that [American] democracy would be carried on the wings of enlightenment, reason and science. No one argues that now.”

Oh, really?

Where would American democracy and freedom be without enlightenment, reason and science? The American experiment grew out of the philosophical belief that man has a unique form of survival: The use of his mind, through reasoning, thinking and self-responsible effort. In order for mankind to survive and flourish, this capacity for reason has to be respected and kept free. 

A government exists to preserve that right for all individuals. A society does well only
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Classes Don't Exist in a Free Society

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Politics & Government
  
Thursday, 01 March 2012 00:00

wealthyMitt Romney claims that his tax cuts will stimulate the economy and pay off the deficit.

If history is any guide, this won’t be true.

Ronald Reagan cut taxes in the 1980s. For a time, the economy improved and the government gained more revenue. Congress spent that money and expanded the deficit.

George W. Bush cut taxes in the early 2000s. For a time, the economy improved (after 9/11) and the government gained more revenue. Congress spent that money and expanded the deficit.

It was a Democratic Congress under Reagan (in the U.S. House), and a Republican Congress under Bush. 

Does anyone seriously think
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The Past Is Not Necessarily Prologue

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Psychology & Self-Improvement
  
Wednesday, 29 February 2012 00:00

timepriorityQ: Dr. Hurd, numerous times you have written about how negative past events in our lives should not be a focus, regarding an excuse or justification for our current lives, correct?

I was just thinking about this. So to apply that same logic, then past positive events should be viewed the same way, correct? Wouldn't it be illogical to say that past negative events shouldn't affect our present decisions, but positive ones should? If we are to dismiss the past as not relevant to our psychological well being...then shouldn't we be consistent and dismiss the positive as well?

 

A: Normally we think of negative events in the past as being fodder for excuses. However,
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"Angry Muslims"? Imagine That!

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Society & Culture
  
Tuesday, 28 February 2012 00:00

terroristwithweaponI keep reading that angry Muslims are attacking NATO forces in Afghanistan.

"Angry Muslims?" Why is that news? Muslims are by definition angry. 

Obama says they're angry because the U.S. hasn't been humble enough. But Obama
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