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Daily Dose of Reason -
Society & Culture
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Written by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D.
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Thursday, 02 February 2012 00:00 |
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A reporter from a local Delaware paper asked for my comments related to recent charges against a local high school teacher who had a sexual relationship with a 17 year old student.
Questions:
What do you think drives or creates such relationships--for both the student and the adult? Is there a common factor?
It will vary from person to person. It's highly personal, individual and complex. Sex is like that, if we’re honest and candid about it, at least with ourselves. There has to be a reason the adult would be looking for something like this in the student-teacher relationship. The idea of a power dynamic seems like it would have to be part of it. To the student, it could be a different kind of "high." Not power so much as visibility. Someone who's an authority who pays attention to you, and it feels good to be visible. Those are the first explanations I think about, although there surely could be many.
What kind of emotional intelligence/boundary training should be given to people working in schools? Should it vary depending on their job within the school?
I don't think it's something that can be intellectually taught. A teacher would not do something like this because he or she is honestly ignorant of the fact that this is a bad idea for a lot of reasons. I maintain that people know what they’re doing, a lot more than we realize. A teacher not having sex with a student? Come on, it’s just common sense. No seminar is going to prevent this from happening.
I suspect that some people like the danger, or the risk. To some, the danger of an emotional/sexual relationship makes it seem more exciting or tantalizing. Most don't take it this far, and some don't want this aspect in their romantic/sex lives at all. But in some the desire is there. This is why people who have extramarital affairs have them. Sure, it usually means they're not quite happy with their existing marriage. But they also like the "danger" because it somehow,
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Read more... [The Psychology of Sexual Abuse]
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Daily Dose of Reason -
Society & Culture
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Written by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D.
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Tuesday, 31 January 2012 00:00 |
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Several months ago, Obama referred to what he considers the essence of America: He said, "This sense of mutual responsibility – the idea that I am my brother’s keeper; that I am my sister’s keeper – has always been a part of what makes our country special."
Actually, this isn't true. You can agree or disagree with Obama that being your brother's or sister's keeper is the right moral approach. I profoundly disagree. But regardless of where you stand on that issue, America is not the only place where people take care of each other. People take care of each other in all kinds of countries. Unfortunately, in many countries people don't take care of themselves. This is what made America stand out. In America, especially
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Read more... [Obama's America: One Big, Gigantic Soup Kitchen]
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Daily Dose of Reason -
Society & Culture
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Written by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D.
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Tuesday, 17 January 2012 00:00 |
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Obama, Gingrich, Perry -- they all hate capitalism, but they sure like the loot it gives them to be the career politicians they are. Where would career politicians be without capitalism?
Don’t kid yourselves. The liberal-statist agenda is to raise taxes on the wealthiest (who already pay the great bulk of taxes), lower taxes on the poor and middle class, and massively expand the welfare-entitlement state, especially for the middle class. The conservatives will only ask, “How are we going to pay for it?” But the real question should be: WHO is going to pay for it? Obviously, those who make the most money are the ones who are going to pay for most or all of it as both taxes and government expand over time. Yet these are the same people who provide the jobs for the great majority of the working and middle class. They are the “capital” in “capitalism.” How does hitting them up for more money help the middle class? The politicians will take the credit for the seizure of wealth and expansion of nice-sounding programs, but those upon whom the middle class and the career politicians depend for their paychecks are going to be burdened ever further. I just don’t understand how this is any kind of solution, any more than a drinking binge for an alcoholic does anything other than (briefly) alter his perceptions of reality.
My fantasy is that the most productive
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Read more... [They Hate Capitalism, But They Sure Want the Loot]
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Daily Dose of Reason -
Society & Culture
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Written by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D.
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Tuesday, 10 January 2012 00:00 |
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Another infuriated and not quite coherent liberal writes in to Dr. Michael Hurd the following:
Obama seeks to redistribute the wealth... upward. I understand you have reasons for your opinions. As a doctor you really do appeal to subjective emotion. Take the title of your article, "Rosie O'Donnell and the Terrorists She Loves." Does she really love terrorists? This is the kind of libel that is acceptable and without liability. I'm fine with that but such sensationalism degrades professionalism in my view. I am flexible but will never allow myself to write some things because my principles prevent it. I just received my J.D.
Businesses can make you do things. They're called private security contractors, and privatized forces will and have put down anti-capitalist and anti-western resistance. So there you go.
Dr. Hurd replies:
Redistribute wealth "upward"? What does that mean?
Under unhampered capitalism -- not crony capitalism, like we have now, but unhampered capitalism -- the standard of living rises for all. Jobs are continuously created, government intervention is nonexistent and the profit motive rules. Downturns are temporary and rare, not the norm (or even permanent) as they have now become, under intensive government regulation and redistribution.
Under Obama's policy, or under the policy of any government interventionist, "upward wealth" occurs
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Read more... [Upward Wealth Redistribution and Other Nutty Liberal Ideas]
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Daily Dose of Reason -
Society & Culture
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Written by Michael J. Hurd, Ph.D.
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Sunday, 01 January 2012 00:00 |
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The following letter entitled, "Lowe's should not limit inclusiveness" recently appeared in my local paper. My reply to the letter, being sent to the paper, follows.
The following letter was sent to Robert A. Niblock, chairman, president and CEO of Lowe's Companies Inc., Wilkesboro, N.C., with a copy submitted to the Cape Gazette for publication.
We are writing to express our disappointment regarding Lowe's decision to withdraw its sponsorship of the TLC television show "All-American Muslim."
We recognized that Lowe's has
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Read more... [Lowe's, Liberty and Tolerance]
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