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The Power You Don't Know You Have

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Psychology & Self-Improvement
  
Tuesday, 06 December 2011 00:00

past-present-futureIf you want to have more success, stop caring about what others think. And stop feeling that you're obliged to do anything for another, aside from a responsibility you freely took on.

These two errors undercut people more than any others I know of, by far. They undercut you in business, in everyday life, in personal or family relationships, or in any aspect of life.

Take it from a therapist who knows. Hours, hours and hours of therapy are spent trying to correct and/or undo the damage of
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President Newt or President Mitt?

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Politics & Government
  
Monday, 05 December 2011 00:00

presidential_sealGingrich or Romney? Which is better, from a pro-freedom, limited government and individual rights point-of-view? The question relies upon a false premise. The false premise is that either one of these men even claims to be in favor of limited government as provided for in the original American Constitution. It's not a matter of figuring out "how good he will be" or "if he really means it" -- because meaning something implies that you think it in the first place. To be fair, neither of these men ever claimed to be an advocate of strictly limited government.

Romney seeks to be a manager. He is not the ideal candidate, but he is the ideal candidate for our anti-ideological times. Our society is essentially run by the left. The left is very much in favor of an ideology, but claims not to be. For the left, this is a strategy. That was the whole purpose of
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Thinking in Absolutes: Healthier Than You Realize (Part 3 of 3)

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Ethics
  
Sunday, 04 December 2011 00:00
question2Back to the case of Henry Judd Gray. Let’s assume that Mencken’s assessment
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Thinking in Absolutes: Healthier Than You Realize (Part 2 of 3)

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Ethics
  
Saturday, 03 December 2011 00:00

question2Mencken writes: “What is the chief mark of such a good man? That he cannot differentiate rationally between sin and sin—that a gnat gags him as badly as a camel. So with poor Gray. His initial peccadillo shocked him so vastly that he could think of himself thereafter only as a sinner unspeakable and incorrigible.” 

It’s impossible to know if this was Henry Judd Gray’s exact psychological state, but it’s highly plausible. Mencken is right that not everyone who does something criminal is necessarily a criminal personality or a sociopath. Essentially, a sociopath is someone who has
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Thinking in Absolutes: Healthier Than You Realize (Part 1 of 3)

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Ethics
  
Friday, 02 December 2011 00:00

question2According to the principles of cognitive therapy, black-and-white thinking is a major cause of emotional problems such as depression and anxiety. Also known as all-or-nothing thinking, many cognitive therapists define it as seeing things in black-or-white categories. If a situation falls short of perfect, you see it as a total failure. When a young woman on a diet eats a spoonful of ice cream, she tells herself, “I’ve blown my diet completely!” This thought upsets her so much that she gobbles down an entire quart. This kind of thinking is also evident in people with temper problems. They describe their anger as going from “1 to 100” in a flash. They find it difficult to distinguish between minor misunderstandings and outrageous injustices because they haven’t trained themselves to do so.

Does identifying the inherent unhealthiness of
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